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The Deadly Seven — Lust

  If Wednesday is the hump day of the week, then Lust is the hump sin of the series — okay,  bad joke.  You can check out the rest of the Deadly Seven, by clicking here for the list. Moving right along now, Lust.  Most of us have a pretty good idea what Lust is.  I mean, we see it talked about a lot, and in our society that is a sexual society, it’s hard not to know it.   What is Lust?   The dictionary defines lust as: Very strong sexual desire: he knew that his lust forher had returned. • [ in sing. ] a passionate desire for something: a lust for power.    Other Forms of Lust   Using Someone To Get What We Want.  Yes, lust is usually defined in the sexual definition, but even in the basic definition of lust we can use someone to get what we want.  It may not be sexual, however, we sometimes make friends with people because of what they can offer us, not what we both can bring to the table.  At this point, we don’t see them as a person but as an object to get what we want.   Not all lust is sexual; using other people to get ahead is lust too. Click To Tweet   Lust In Marriages   Lust or Desire?  I think in our society we are very confused with the idea of lust and desire.  Lust, satisfies itself.  There is no greater meaning for it, since it starts and ends with itself.  So lust can enter a marriage if all we think about is what our spouse can do for us.  If our thoughts primarily focus on our own pleasure then it is indeed lust....

Getting Through the Trials of Life

  Something happened to me recently that made me question so many things in my life–the easiest way to say it, is that it was a trial. I ended up questioning my purpose, the reason I’m here, and even the sacrifices that I have made over the years for the family. This event has shaken me to the core, and I’m still recovering from it.   My many distractions…   Now, writing on my blog is a great comforter. I can get lost in the words, and try not to deal with the issue at hand. In fact, it was the great distractions I had, but suddenly I couldn’t log into my blog to write—I can only view it as read only. This persisted for weeks, as I couldn’t post, edit, or do anything online to my blog.  The only thing I could do is to just sit there and watch it.  Many times, I found myself just going back to older posts just to read what I wrote. Who would have thought that my many words would give me comfort for the trials I face today.     Not being able to access the admin of my blog caused me to face the issue that was a problem head on. I couldn’t retreat into something else to take away hurt and pain, instead I had to deal with it, and not run from it. I could have lost hours online, but that is not where I turn to when I need to sort through emotions.  In many ways I just felt stuck, with no choice but to face the elephant in the...
Spiritual Reading: The Imitation of Christ

Spiritual Reading: The Imitation of Christ

I have a lot of Spiritual books on my reading list.  Many of them that I have read already, and some that I am itching to get through.  Each one of these books holds a treasure to change who I am, and lessons to living life to the fullest in the realist way.  While I could have started with anyone of those books, I decided to start with a book that I am reading: The Imitation of Christ. The Imitation of Christ is one of the most widely read devotional over 500 years.  Yup–I said it right, 500 years!  I first came across it by reading a quote in the Catechism of the Catholic Church.  All Christians can get something out of this, not only Catholics.  I honesty would say that this text is good for anyone who wants grow their devotion to  Christ.   Learning Detachment   One of the greatest lessons that I’ve learned through this book, is about detachment.  Not just from things around us, but detachment from praise, detachment from our own pride and desires.  Each and every single false attachment we have to things (and sometimes people) makes us less attached to God.  So for instance, if you’re always wondering what other people what think of you, maybe you won’t go out there and share the truth because you don’t want anyone to think that you are crazy. To sum it up, there is a sort of self-death that happens to us when we truly become disciples of Christ.     Discerning Desires   Desires (I think) is one of the greats things that leads us...
3 R’s For Meditating On Scripture

3 R’s For Meditating On Scripture

  I find that I am always interested in improving myself when it comes to meditating on scripture.  I’ve used so many different methods but this one seems to help me the most.  Of course, my hope that you will be helped by this method as well.  Here are the 3R’s to meditating on Scripture.   Read   I know right?  It’s the most obvious step, but it does begin with reading the Bible.  When started Bible meditation, some say start with the Gospels, other says the Book of John.  I didn’t follow either one, I started in Genesis.  Which ever you decide to start with, the main important thing to do is start.  Pray to the Holy Spirit to help you.  There are countless times that I have stopped mid-read to ask for guidance.  I also pray to get out of my scripture reading what the Holy Spirit wants me to get out of it, and not what I want it say.   Reflect You read until something reach something that pops out at you.  This passage, phrase, quote will grab your attention and this is where you will stop reading.   Re-read the passage.   Try to stop and every word and get as much out of it as you possibly can.   Think about why this passage stuck out at you.  What is going on in your life that makes this passage stand out to you. All these things are taken into account when reflecting on Scripture.  What grabs your attention may not be the same thing that grabs someone else.  This part of Scripture stopped YOU...

Sunday Prayer for Peace

  Have you turned on the news lately, and felt like there was just no peace?  I’ve heard through the inter web that it looks like we’re headed (or in) World War III.  Now, that could be an ever exaggeration–to us.  However, I cannot imagine what it’s like for people to live in conflict areas.  To them, this is no imagination at all.  What we can gather, is that there is a lack of peace in our world.  In the United States, we have unrest and protests.  Meanwhile, in Syria and Iraq we have militant forces destroying the quality of life.  Finally, the conflict of Israel and the Gaza Strip, we have two groups constantly fighting and shelling out rockets in each other’s direction. Now, every nation is going to have their own problems–we get that.  But there is something to note when so much is happening around us  that it will affect the locations that we go, or even what words to say.   No wonder someone can feel like it’s a global war happening!  This Sunday, I hope that you join me in my prayer for peace. It is obvious that we as a Nation, as a Society, and as members of this world in this very moment need it.     Dear Lord, There has been so much going on in the news lately.  Locally and internationally, that it leaves many of us confused, some angry and others bitter.  We ask Lord that you send down your Holy Spirit and touch people’s hearts and minds so that there will be peace among each other. We pray for...
Sunday Prayer: Knowing My Limit

Sunday Prayer: Knowing My Limit

    Dear Lord, You have taught valuable lessons this week. Through you, I have learned that I should just walk away from negative people. They take too much from me, and leave me empty at the end of the day. Without doing so, I leave my family empty and wanting me whole. I looked for guidance, and you graciously sent me a stranger. This stranger taught me that I was important in my life (of course You will always be first). Not only have this person helped me get out of my funk, but he also helped me realize that I have to help me get out of my funk. Thank you Lord for giving me the strength to be a living example for my daughter. By showing my daughter a range of healthy emotions, she will learn that it is okay to feel  sad, happy, or mad. I look forward to the new week and all the new lessons you have to teach. Amen. This post was originally published July 30, 2011. Minor edits on Sept, 3,...
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